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|Mon, 06-02-2003 - 5:38pm|
okay guys i am 26 i have had a friend for seven years....we all know the saying you don't sleep with your friends it ruins the relationship. well my friend and i had known each other in college, we had chemistry, we knew we could possibly hook up and even made out a few times.The reason we never hooked up i was involved in a college sweetheart on again off again relationship...Anyway i moved away to take a job out of state we kept in touch....i would come back to vist him and some friends and last year we took the plunge and slept together we both liked it were single and i was intrested in moving back home We decided it would be perfect timing for us espically if i moved back ...anyway long story short.... it took 6 months for me to move in that time we had not started a relationship due to distance and he somehow started dating and fell for some other girl. luckily they broke up 1 month before i got home. i was none the wiser until he got all sour puss about not wanting a relationship and finally admitted he was sour due to this girl dumping him...now here are the most important facts...he had no chemistry with this girl , he is unsure if he fell in love, and he can't get over her!! so now our "anticpated hooking up" has grinded to a hault! in any event its been 3 months im dating and i have a few prospects and i really really wanted me and him to work but at this point im frustrated....hes milling around over this girl and when i say hey lets just go back to being regular friends he gets all upset like how come im not giving him time and he doesn't want to close the door on us! So in all honesty guys is 3 months enough time? am i the one being pushy? he broke up wit her in dec and is still not over this he even started calling her again....im sure this is going beyond him wanting closure but he won't close the book on us......despite we never acctually started our relationship thats his fault not mine should i keep playing lady in waiting?