My 6 month 'limit'
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| Sat, 07-03-2004 - 10:56am |
It occured to me that in every relationship that I've been in lasting 6 months or more, from high school on, I reach the 6 month mark and freak out. My mindset ranges anywhere from 'Wayyyy too much committment' to 'Now what?'. It's not insurmountable to get over it, but it does seem to be a rough patch.
I love my current boyfriend, and we have a great relationship, but as I figured out yesterday, it seems like I've developed the bad habit of wanting to sabotage my relationships. Maybe I do it to save myself heartache by cutting things off at an earlier date, maybe I do it to test his interest in me, or maybe I just do it because I'm a relationship phobic....
Am I cursed to remain this way and constantly be the 6 month wonder for the rest of my life?
