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my boy friend
| Wed, 08-25-2004 - 3:10pm |
hello my name is tomeika. i need some quick advice. here goes.... me and my boyfriend have been together on and off since we were like 14( we are 21 now), we live together and we also have a 3 year old daughter together. from time to time i would ask him if he is happy in the relationship to make sure this is where he wants to be. his response is yes but he says since he has never really dated anyone else but me he often wonders what he's missing and if there is anything out there for him and he says even though he feels that way he can handle it. i told him i completely understand. i love my boyfriend very much and there is no one else that i want to spend my life with right now but i also want him to be happy and everytime i ask him if he is happy he says yes but also gives me that same response as i have mentioned. so im asking myself should i just let him explore even though he says he's happy with me. As much as i would hurt me to let him go is that something i should do. i need help. i dont want to lose him.

You've known this man for 7 years...WOW! That's one-third of your lifetime! But he's still got a 'roving eye' for another woman, huh? Pianoguy has this suggestion:
Tell your b/f he can do all the 'exploring' he wants...providing he supports YOU and YOUR DAUGHTER financially. Make sure you give him a lump sum of money per month that you'll need in order to cover all expenses....including new clothes for you and your daughter.
Then...if he has any money left over...he can "wine and dine another woman!"
More than likely, (unless his parents own a portion of the state of Hawaii), he won't have enough money to pull this off!
Pianoguy