my boyfriend cheated... should i stay?
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|Tue, 06-03-2003 - 2:08am|
as happy as i am that we're still together, I am scared to death that it will happen again, or that he never even ended things with Her and i am just being blind because i love him. he was so good at concealing their relationship back then, so what's to say he isn't doing that again? I spoke with his ex again about a month ago, and she wished us the best and told me that he had not tried to fix things with her or get back with her or anything like that. however, I still have a pit in the bottom of my stomach whenever I think about it.
i think my real question is, do you believe that men can change? is it really possible that my boyfriend realized what he did to me (AND her) was wrong and he isn't going to do it again? He told me the reason he didn't end things with her when he met me is because he didn't want his son to be without a father, and that his ex would take his son away from him if he left her. he said he is in love with me, but that he cares about her, and felt that he should be with her because of their son. i know that he loves me... i am just so terrified... but I want to be with this man. I love him. I just don't know what to think anymore. it's going to be hard to ever, ever trust him again. should I? or should i get away ASAP?
any advice, whether i'll like it or not, would be greatly appreciated :)