My boyfriend hates my mother
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My boyfriend hates my mother
| Sun, 10-14-2007 - 3:50am |
I have known my boyfriend for five years, and only have been dating him two....although he hates my mother....he has never even met her....and he says he has no desire to. Why? because she asked me "don't you think its wierd that you only see eachother two times a week?" because he lives in my old home town an hour and a half north of where I live now....( I will be returning there in January to go to nursing school.)So I just happened to mention what my mother said and he flipped out saying that he hates my mother and how dare she imply that he's cheating on me. She just doesn't want to see you happy blah blah blah..now I didn't even think that mentioning it in our conversation would cause such an up roar....I hate drama and I'm not a

Have you made it clear to him that you don't like the way he speaks about your mother?
This probably isn't what you want to hear but if I was dating someone who decided he hated my mother without having even met her, I wouldn't continue dating him. My relationship with my mom is important and also important to me that a man I want to have a future with respects my family.
I'm not sure why you put up with him saying hateful things about your mom but it's not right.
Welcome to the board gina_marie1982,
Sorry, but his reaction to what your mother said, was way over the top.