My boyfriend keeps things from me

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Registered: 01-13-2008
My boyfriend keeps things from me
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Sun, 01-13-2008 - 4:35pm

Dr. S-


I need some light shed on my situation from a professional. My boyfriend of 3 years has friends in San Diego, and LA, which he visits on a fairly regular basis (maybe once

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 01-13-2008 - 5:07pm

In short, you can't stop his behaviour.

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Sun, 01-13-2008 - 5:34pm
I agree with true. Strip clubs seem to be a deal-breaker for you, but he is going to continue to go to them, with or without your knowledge. The fact that he continuously lies means that he can't be trusted. I don't see much compromise here. I hope you move on to someone who you are more compatible with.
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Registered: 01-13-2008
Sun, 01-13-2008 - 6:23pm
I think you are absoloutely right. There is no real soloution for this problem. I go to school and live about one hour from him, its his friends that live far away, he used to live in San Diego, so thats why he has so many friends there. I visist him every weekend, and he uses porn during the week day when im not around...but I feel like his life is dilluted with fantasy and this last weekend in vegas he experinced
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 12:12pm

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Registered: 12-21-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 5:01pm
Yeah I don't know