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My boyfriend left me
| Mon, 03-08-2004 - 2:42am |
Hi my name is Chubby.
I am really upset and depressed tonight. My boyfriend left me because he said he can't trust me. The reason he said he can't trust me is because I borrowed $40.00 from a friend and paid her back. The reason I borrowed this money was because we had none not even to eat. I put food in the refrigerator and gave him some so he can go to work. I went against my entire family because they were not able to accept my happiness with this man. My daughter harrassed him and threaten him over the phone so I filed a police report against her because she wouldn't stop. I am 38 years old and he is 45 years old. He goes through these uncontrollable rages. In this relationship I believed it was 50/50. He wants to say that he has supported me all this time. He got mad when I reminded him of the times I have set my money on the table to help him. Now that I have no money, not even to eat he claims I am a burden to him. I believe his anger is more to the fact that on Monday he was really sick, and there was an emergency and I had to tend to my grandson Nicholas who is 3 years old, and needed his grandmother. Now I have lost my family and he has abandoned me. He said he would be by tomorrow to pick up his belongings. I love him so much I can't bare to leave him go. Need advice, please help.
I am really upset and depressed tonight. My boyfriend left me because he said he can't trust me. The reason he said he can't trust me is because I borrowed $40.00 from a friend and paid her back. The reason I borrowed this money was because we had none not even to eat. I put food in the refrigerator and gave him some so he can go to work. I went against my entire family because they were not able to accept my happiness with this man. My daughter harrassed him and threaten him over the phone so I filed a police report against her because she wouldn't stop. I am 38 years old and he is 45 years old. He goes through these uncontrollable rages. In this relationship I believed it was 50/50. He wants to say that he has supported me all this time. He got mad when I reminded him of the times I have set my money on the table to help him. Now that I have no money, not even to eat he claims I am a burden to him. I believe his anger is more to the fact that on Monday he was really sick, and there was an emergency and I had to tend to my grandson Nicholas who is 3 years old, and needed his grandmother. Now I have lost my family and he has abandoned me. He said he would be by tomorrow to pick up his belongings. I love him so much I can't bare to leave him go. Need advice, please help.

hi chubby, i know you are very hurt and sad, and this is probably not what you want to hear, but i agree with siyar, this is NOT a healthy relationship. please re-read what you wrote, and ask your self objectively, what would YOU suggest to this poster.
there is too much anger, and rage, and sadness here. you are forced to give up your family (whom i hope have only your best interest) you are living in fear and poverty. why? you deserve better than that.
Tiffany