My boyfriend's friend.........
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My boyfriend's friend.........
| Sun, 09-26-2004 - 11:31am |
Please help meeeeeeeeeeee
i get the feeling that my boyfriend's best friend (V.B) is trying to break us up...V.B. acts like he is my friend and calls to go out and stuff and everytime we do go out he always opens a conversation on how me and my boyfriend should be in our relationship. For some weird reason this guy loves to play the relationship expert and the irony is that he's never had a serious relationship. He makes up stories that knows will p*ss me off and always tries to make me and my boyfriend have an argument. I don't want to tell my b/f to stop hanging out with him but i don't like it when they hang out. I believe that V.B is kinda jealous that my b/f is not "single" anymore and i think he feels like i took his friend away from him. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he feels like he has to choose...I don't want him to choose...I just want his friend to stop interfering in our relationship.
i get the feeling that my boyfriend's best friend (V.B) is trying to break us up...V.B. acts like he is my friend and calls to go out and stuff and everytime we do go out he always opens a conversation on how me and my boyfriend should be in our relationship. For some weird reason this guy loves to play the relationship expert and the irony is that he's never had a serious relationship. He makes up stories that knows will p*ss me off and always tries to make me and my boyfriend have an argument. I don't want to tell my b/f to stop hanging out with him but i don't like it when they hang out. I believe that V.B is kinda jealous that my b/f is not "single" anymore and i think he feels like i took his friend away from him. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he feels like he has to choose...I don't want him to choose...I just want his friend to stop interfering in our relationship.

Have you considered that this guy might have a thing for you? When I read your post I immediately thought that. He calls to hang out with you and tells you things that will upset you about your boyfriend so maybe you will break it off. While I don't think he is being any type of friend to him to do that behind his back; I honestly think his actions speak of jealousy that your boyfriend has you and not he. I could be wrong, not the first time, but isn't it possible?
Good point....You could be right! I keep forgetting about the same sex attractions. It could go both ways, he could want her or him but nevertheless, he wants to break the relationship up because he has vested interest in some form to benefit himself. Lucy
Carrie