My daughters x has brainwashed her how can I help?
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|Wed, 02-05-2014 - 6:13am|
Hi, I will just nightlight a few things, my daughter gets engaged all is good, he moved in with us. His home is a 4 hour drive away and he works shifts here and he would return home on his 4 days off and go out getting blind drunk with mates spending lots of money, my daughter did not mind this. I used to think hey my daughters got the day off and he is off why not stay a day with her and then go but no he always went but I let that go. She had to have major surgey and guess what he left didn't even see her to theatre that's when I went off him he posted drunk pics on facebook not even knowing if she was dead!. She let it go. Anyway he lays in bed hiding his phone while messaging people she finds his password and oh lots of women he's chasing asking out pretending to be single she confronts him he says he was hacked, she let's it go again. This carries on he lays in bed she gets breakfast everyday even when just out if hospital. She's at work on day he's out all day again on the beer no reply all day from him then a pic comes up on the iPad of him and a woman that he's just sent to a friend from his phone with the reply get het shagged!! My daughter confronts him and the next morning he leaves I confronted him too. He tells my daughter he's done nothing wrong it's all my fault. He returns 4 days later and collects his things also tried to take her dog I phone police he had the insurance policy with him saying he's his dog but he's her dog. he told my daughter he didn't want to take him but yet he bought paperwork and sent me a tx saying I had stoLen his dog! And was taking him.Yet still my daughter doesn't see it. Well then he's got someone pregnant within 2 days of leaving but says he never had sex with her!! Yet he went with her to have birth registered in his name. Then while this one was pregnant he got another girlfriend so he then had 3 on the go because he still saw my daughter when he worked this way. He tells my daughter it's all her fault and everyone is lying he's done nothing wrong she keeps on seeing him. Why can't I get through to her! Everyone tells her she has counselling but still she just doesn't see what a scumbag he is. He says if she never talks to the other women he will have her back and she has to move and live near him. She has been talking to the others on email and the other 2 have realised what he's doing but she just can't seem to see it. This has been going on for a year now. she seems willing to forgive him everything but I know he will never change he told her he's stopped seeing girlfriend number 2 but he hadn't because she he email her and she told her. How can I get through to her please I've tried everything kindness, shouting, crying, nothing works,he seems to enjoy tormenting her she asked him to drive to see her he said I am driving and sent her a pic he was driving to the pub! She doesn't even see he was taking the piss