My divorce will be final but he wants me

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Registered: 01-06-2004
My divorce will be final but he wants me
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Tue, 01-06-2004 - 1:24pm
What would you women do if you were me in my shoes.I mean My divorce will be final on the 14th of January but we are still living together and he wants me to stay.We have a beautifull little girl and I do love him.But how can he say he loves me and wants me to stay if he still is going through with the divorce??What should i do?What do u think?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-06-2004 - 1:32pm
I would take control of my life and move away from him having already established visitation and child support through the divorce. I wouldn't let someone divorce me and then still give him the benefits of marriage.

However, in your particular situation, it's hard to say with so little details.

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Tue, 01-06-2004 - 1:38pm
I think we need a lot more info. Why the divorce and what is his explanation for wanting you back? What has changed? What will prevent him from wanting out again?
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Registered: 04-02-2003
Tue, 01-06-2004 - 1:55pm

why are you getting divorced? and if you are getting divorced - how come you never separated?


its hard to say whay any of us would do because we don't know your situation. if you want there is a board here for people going thru divorce where you might get more specific advice


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsmartdivor

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Registered: 09-05-2003
Tue, 01-06-2004 - 2:39pm

Well, I will repeat the call for more information, but based on the generic question we have here I will try to give a response.


He could be wanting to do this for any of a number of reasons.