My fiancee is PIS*ING me off!!!!!
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|Fri, 05-17-2013 - 9:05am|
I'm new on here, though I've been a long time lurker.
Hope I'm on the right board. I'm having a problem with my fiancee. He has recently gone through two deaths in the family (of elderly age) and from one of them he got a large inheritance of money and the other a small inheritance of money. Well, long story short, he cannot touch the large amount for a while, but is entitled to the small amount now (under 10G.)
He and his mother, what can I say? They're always at each other's throats, LMAO! He is constantly telling me how much he can't stand his mother. As long as I've known him, this is how their relationship has always been.
Now, I'm confused! I happened to come across a Facebook conversation between my fiancee and his mother (By accident! You wouldn't believe me if I told you! LOL!) I'm glad I read it, because he was telling her that he was getting his money soon (the small inheritance.) This was even a shock to me since his mother is the last person I thought he'd speak of money to. Well, apparently, he is giving some to her! WOW!
What throws me is that the two elderly people who passed absolutely made sure that my fiancee's mother didn't get a cent, nothing at all. The family says she is terrible with money and that is all she ever talks or cares about. I've even heard her go on about money, money, money, all the time! So.............. Why would my fiancee want to give her money? Even after all of the ranting and raving about her and him saying that she doesn't deserve money?! He doesn't know that I know all of this. Last I heard, he was using that money for bills and a new fence around the house.
I guess it's his mother, but I don't think it's right. Maybe I'm being selfish here but damn! I guess the bills don't get paid or we're not getting a new fence. How can you bad talk about someone all the time and then turn around and say, "Here, have some money?" I don't get it.....................
Should I just let it be or bring it up with him? I was already flamed with him for spending money on himself (Entirely different issue) and now this? He spends large amounts of money on a game (Don't ask) and then bi*ches that he's always broke. WTF?! I've brought that issue up with him but that never changes. We have children together also, and they need things and he knows this, but complains he's broke. Makes sense, doesn't it?
I'm not sure how to approach the inheritance thing, and I shouldn't even bother bringing up the other thing as he continues to do what he wants. It's like he's not even listening to me at all. I don't even ask for anything other than what the kids need. Sorry but this whole thing is just starting to piss me off and he doesn't seem to care.
PLEASE REPLY! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!