is my girlfriend gay

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Registered: 08-28-2007
is my girlfriend gay
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Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:12pm
last few months she has tuned me out. She has blamed it on the divorce she is going through.Now she has been involved with a number of online womens chat rooms.She has now gotten into hgtv,aromatherapy and southpark. Is she a lesbian? VERY CONCERNED

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Registered: 08-03-2007
Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:19pm
This is clearly a joke.
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Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:21pm

There is absolutely no way of knowing whether or not your girlfriend is a lesbian. Aromatherapy certainly has nothing to do with sex at all. You said she had gone through a hard divorce...most likely she is simply in the process of trying to recover from that and find herself again.


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Registered: 08-28-2007
Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:22pm
no its not....im a little concerned here going crazy.sorry if it sounds stupid
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Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:24pm
thank you
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Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:24pm

Sorry, but you haven't posted anything that would indicate that she might be gay.


I imagine going through a divorce is stressful. Plus the fact that she is already dating again?

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Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:25pm
What does any of those things you mention have to do with someone's sexual preference? People do different things when they are going through somthing dramatic in their lives. I had a little trouble understanding your question.
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Registered: 08-28-2007
Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:27pm
we have been together a year and a half..her ex is lives in another country.cant find him to sign papers....so i guess its all stress for her.....but she doesnt kiss me,hug me the little things that i need
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Registered: 08-28-2007
Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:30pm
i thought they might be signs of something...granted im a bit axious
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Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:39pm
If she is not giving you what you need in the relationship, than sit her down and explain to her how you are feeling and what you need from her. She if she willing to work on things.
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Tue, 08-28-2007 - 5:43pm
i have expressed my concern.....ive gotten mad....asking for more from her..she comes back with that I have A D D..and that i should be medicated

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