My hubbie doesn't want to have a sex
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My hubbie doesn't want to have a sex
| Fri, 12-21-2007 - 11:56am |
Hi.
I dated my hubbie for a year before we got married which was a year ago.(so I have been with him for 2 years total) He was so enthusiastic at first, and he would want to have a sex when we hang out at my/his apt. Then after we got married and started to live together, his desire seemed to be decreased.
We would have a sex once a week for past half year, then once in 2 weeks, and now, we don't have a sex unless I ask him to have one. Even I ask him,

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Welcome to the board supergreen,
Since his sex drive has changed, can you think of anything that happened around the time of the change occurred that could account for this?
You might want to ask him to see his doctor to get a physical to rule out anything medical that could be causing this. And I'm sorry, but him saying you want sex because you are bored and don't have anything creative do is nuts. There is lots of creative, busy people that have healthy sex lifes.
If you aren't able to talk about this or fix it, it is going only to cause more problems in your marriage. Would he be willing to go to marriage counseling with you?
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No, he would not like to go to a counseling.(I have asked him
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You obviously have a sex drive much more than your husband.
Thank you for writing.
I understand what you said, and I agree with the fact that I have to be patient. However, the problem is that
hi,
you might want to look at the message board called Mismatched Libidos.
Thank you fro writing.
I think he is selfish too. I don't mean that he should want what I want, no, but he can't live like a bachelor
Hi, I can feel your pain. I've been with my bf of 13 yrs. The last 12 have been the same for me. Yes 12 long years. I wanted sex he didn't. I felt like something was wrong w/ me. He told me I was oversexed, and sex is over rated. Now I know I'm not bad in bed so what the hell? Well I gained a lot of weight due to a med. condition. I asked him if it was the weight, he said no.. Well I lost all the weight and more. I'm down to 127 was 205. Now he wont let me alone. He always wants sex. I guess I should be happy, but I'm more repulsed by it. So I know it was the weight, and how shallow was he to punish me that way? I'm not happy at all and am thinking of leaving him... I'm telling you this b/c something is bothering him and he might not want to hurt your feelings. Yet not telling you is destroying who you are as a person w/ feelings. I hope he opens up before you give up like I did
He should not have gotten married if he wanted to focus on himself and his career.
Thank you for writing.
I do agree with you about guys
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