my husband is abnormal...plz help!

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Registered: 11-13-2003
my husband is abnormal...plz help!
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Wed, 04-14-2004 - 11:24pm
my husband and i have been married since august of last year...sex before we were married and for the first 2 weeks were fine...there was a period where then it was more then a month before we had sex...now its getting to be about every third sunday...i would laugh at that at first, but now this has become a very nerve racking issue for me. we are both 20 and i thought when we got married instead of having sex every other day it would be more frequent. he is in the navy and right now going to a very stressfull school for it...but come on...what could be wrong? i know hes not cheating on me and i know he still finds me attractive, so what can it be. the bad thing is that divorce is certainly coming up in my head unless things change. i cant spend my life with someone who doesnt satisfy my needs. i can only take so much masturbation. i know i didnt get married for the sex, but he knows im a very sexual person, and i need it...a lot...what can i possible to do to change this situation?
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 5:09am
what does he say when you ask him about this?