my husband is acting weird

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Registered: 11-15-2003
my husband is acting weird
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Thu, 09-23-2004 - 4:06pm
My husband and I have been married for going on seven years. We have been together for elevn years. This last month he has been acting weird. He has been snappy and nothing I do is right. He doesn't want to have sex with me and when we do he acts like he only doing it to please me. He all so want sneaked out of the house one night to go to the bar. I was with my mom and when I got home he was gone and the kids told me he want out. He never does that. He uselly don't go out with me, because he saids it causes to many problems. He is all so writting people on the internet. He don't email people not even his friends. He says he don't know how. He uselly just looks up sports and news. He also has been getting on it when I am not around and when I am around he tells me that I am spying on him. Which I admit I did look. Only because he was acting weird. I also found porn on his site. Which it anthor thing that is weird. Because he never got into that before. I just don't know what to do any more. So if you can please help I would love it.
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Registered: 06-13-2003
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 4:42pm
Well of course nobody here knows for sure what he's up to, but your story has all the signs of a guy who's become wrapped up with other women on the internet. Whether it's cyber-sex or actually going out to meet real people on the sly...it's very damaging to your marriage. Any time one person starts needing to have secrets, sneaking out, not including the other or becomes disinterested in the other person, your relationship is in trouble. I'm not sure you can get him to counselling b/c only a person who wants to change things will do that, but I'd suggest you go for yourself to get help with how to deal with this situation. Good luck.
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Registered: 02-14-2004
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 6:28pm
hey, e-mail me... my e-mail addy is hightek669@yahoo.com My name is Tracy. I am 22. I will e-mail you something/ an article that might help...