Is my husband cheating?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2004
Is my husband cheating?
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Fri, 08-13-2004 - 10:53am
Hi,

My husband and I haven't talk to eachother for a week(this is all the time every other week) he has alot of overtime, but today he got home earily and I didn't know I was at work, and we havn't talk to eachother because he is mad at me for something, then after he pick me up at work, he is happy and talking to me alot, and we make love that night. Moring he went to work, I find another white stain on his underwear, I don't know anymore, he gets mad all the time and then happy again?

I don't know where to begin, I feel that my husband is cheating. We been married 4yrs. going on 5yrs, I find things he do now is different then past, and I'm not sure what it is but I have a feeling he is cheating. There is 1question that trouble me, I know he is cheating because I find white stain on his underwear but I'm not sure that's what it looks like?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-05-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:53pm
I am sorry to say that most times when you feel that your spouse is up to something, he usually is. When I was married, after only three years of marriage I felt 'something' was not right. If he is all of a sudden being nice to you, talking to you and making love with you after not talking to you for a while, it could very well be a result of guilt for what he may be doing behind your back. I am not saying he is doing anything but I had a feeling regarding my husband... I had no concrete proof... I just felt something inside me and soon after I found out he was cheating on me... he of course is now my ex. I can't say what that 'stain' might be but keep your eyes and ears open for further signs... they will appear, cheaters usually screw up one way or another. In the meanitme, don't accuse until you find out for sure.... but do investigate. Good luck.