my husband isn't sexual

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Registered: 07-25-2007
my husband isn't sexual
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Sat, 03-29-2008 - 10:59am

my husband does not initiate sex very often.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 5:55pm

Welcome to the board gatorrep,


Does he know the depth of your feeling on this matter?

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 6:15pm

Sex isnt the issue, it is attention.

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Registered: 07-25-2007
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 9:54pm

carrie,


yes, he knows the depth of my feelings on this matter and yes, we can go to counseling, but i am not sure if counseling is the right thing to do because i don't want to burst his ego. i am afraid couseling could make the situation worse.


so do you think the next person (izzyandalex'smom) to reply to my post is right? is this all about me? i am being selfish?


i think that is an interesting take on the situation, and i know that i can be selfish, BUT,

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Registered: 07-25-2007
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 9:57pm
i think you might have
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 10:02pm

We all show love differently. I could not be with someone long-term that didn't initiate sex with me.

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Registered: 03-06-2008
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 12:04am

You have sex once a week and you say that you are happy with that frequency.

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 7:45am

You mentioned your sex life is pretty routine, he probably settled into it.

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