yes, he knows the depth of my feelings on this matter and yes, we can go to counseling, but i am not sure if counseling is the right thing to do because i don't want to burst his ego. i am afraid couseling could make the situation worse.
so do you think the next person (izzyandalex'smom) to reply to my post is right? is this all about me? i am being selfish?
i think that is an interesting take on the situation, and i know that i can be selfish, BUT,
Welcome to the board gatorrep,
Does he know the depth of your feeling on this matter?
Sex isnt the issue, it is attention.
carrie,
yes, he knows the depth of my feelings on this matter and yes, we can go to counseling, but i am not sure if counseling is the right thing to do because i don't want to burst his ego. i am afraid couseling could make the situation worse.
so do you think the next person (izzyandalex'smom) to reply to my post is right? is this all about me? i am being selfish?
i think that is an interesting take on the situation, and i know that i can be selfish, BUT,
We all show love differently. I could not be with someone long-term that didn't initiate sex with me.
You have sex once a week and you say that you are happy with that frequency.
You mentioned your sex life is pretty routine, he probably settled into it.