My husband is Paranoid

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2007
My husband is Paranoid
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Fri, 11-30-2007 - 4:39pm
I need help.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 5:40pm

Welcome to the board nebeautymom,


Would he be willing to go to individual and/or couples counseling to address his jealousy/trust issues?


No, I don't think you should quit your job.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 6:11pm

Welcome to the board nebeautymom,


How sad that your husband didn't handle his baggage before marriage. Will he go to counseling with you?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 7:04pm

Yes, your husband is paranoid ... and I can see how his line of questioning would drive you nuts!


Have you asked him, point blank, to tell you what if anything you have done to deserve such mistrust?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2005
Sat, 12-01-2007 - 12:55am
If there were actual friction or something going on at you job then I would say quit.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2007
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 10:22am

Thank you for the reassurance.