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My husband will not kiss me
| Mon, 12-10-2007 - 11:03am |
Hi All ~
I will be married for 13 years at the end of this month. With my husband for a total of 16 years.
For a number of years now, he won't kiss me. He definitely DID when we were dating and first married but he hasn't in a long time. I literally have to beg him to kiss me (other than the smooch-your-Grandma kind). It's getting embarrassing. I'm 40 years old begging my husband to give me a racy kiss.
Even when we're intimate he doesn't kiss me. Or if I beg enough, he'll open his mouth about 1/2 inch and not do anything with his tongue. I

Welcome to the board feisty1020,
I think it would be a sitution for marriage counseling since he hasn't always been this way.
Will he give you any sort of explanation as to why he has changed over the years?
They do say problems inside the bedroom and often caused by problems outside the bedroom. Is there anything you could think of that could be the cause of all this?
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No. He seems as happy as can be. I have asked him numerous times "is there anything else I can do for you to feel loved?" and he always responds that it would be impossible for me to do more.
I have asked him point blank about the kissing and he laughs it off. I have had sit down discussions with him regarding this issue, along with the lack of affection and attention, and he gets upset that I'm 'so unhappy' but does nothing.
It's tiring to keep saying "can you kiss me??" during