my man and porn!
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| Sun, 02-29-2004 - 11:23am |
well my problem has ben an on going argument for ages now + ive quite a few times asked others for advice??
y does my partner look at porn when im not in? in that respect he does not do in when im in as he knows how i feel about about + it isant something he does everyday either.
i love him to bits everything would be perfect if i can just accepct this i mean he doesnt cheat on me so what is my problem?
i just feel very sick be the whole thing i feel jealous + rubbish about myself!
is it normal? do all men masterbate to porn? + is it a replacement for sex? we have a fine sex life but im not interested in looking at porn at all i feel he wants something else or someone else?
he is the perfect man in every way possible + love me to bits to!!
please i would really like to hear ur thoughts on it as its tearing us apart my constant naggin + jealousy i cant stop thinking about it !!!!!
kayla x x

i haven't met a man yet who would pass up the opportunity to look at a naked woman - and any man who tells you he wouldn't is lying through his teeth...
it doesn't mean you're ugly or that he'd cheat on you or that anything is wrong with you.
women don't always look at porn because, well, honestly, men aren't as beautiful as we are :)
Tried everything that people usually say but it didn`t work.Now I found on our computer
shemale porn that he looked at not to long ago.Now I know that I was wasting time before
with trying everything.All that talk that porn is normal and women should just get used to it doesn`t work.BTW I forgot to say to he had no interest for almost 3 months now in any sex with me.So much for how good porn can be for a relationship.It does kill ours every day a little bit more.
Talk to him and if he loves you then he puts your feelings first before porn.But if he is still doing it you have a choice.Stay with him and really learn to love it.If you still hate it that much then you have to think about it really hard of what your next step will be.Sure hope you will never find yourself replaced by shemale porn.I wish you luck in whatever you will do.You love him and that was my reason too to keep on going.What I found out is that when porn takes over then nothing is as important anymore.Think long and hard about what you are going to do.
Tiffany
im really starting to get to grips with this thanks alot x x x
Wow, I need to put in my signature my "why guys look at porn, and what it does and doesn't mean when they do" speach.
First off, I am a guy, so I would like to think that I understand guys at least a little bit.
James
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