My marriage is in trouble...
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My marriage is in trouble...
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 10:25am |
Ok ladies here's my situation, I really don't know where to go for advice...
Dh and I have been married for 5 years, together 6. We have 2 besutiful children and things are pretty good all around.
Our sex life was great then children came, twins. It died down as to be expected...

Have you ever considered counseling? A marriage counselor can do wnders, but both people have to be committed to it.
I am no sex therapist, by no means, but sex does not define a marriage, In my opinion...Have you considered seeing your doctor, as maybe you have a medical condition- stress related, or otherwise.
Be patient, calm and keep your head up...
I think we choose this loss of complete self determination because we feel that we are getting other positives in our life that make it worth the sacrifices, right?
Melissa
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Well you do sound a bit judgemental..however I do see where your coming from.
I am very grateful that he comes to me and not elsewhere, if he did go outside the marriage their would be no marriage so that would be a separate issue.
I understand the need. That is not my issue, the issue is that he throws a huge fit about it. If I don't feel well then that's my prerogative to say no. Believe me, I have "given in" on MANY occasions just to please him, I have made that compromise
Melissa
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if you get him to meet you halfway and you still aren't feeling desire, there are some libido increasing liquids that you can buy at most adult stores. They contain some sort of minty substance and you put it on your clitoris. That was pretty good for me. But the most important thing is to make him take time to help you, and don't take his crap. If you don't watch out, soon you will subconsciously equate sex with his immaturity. i hope that helps you some.