My mother is still driving me Crazy!!

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Registered: 06-22-2007
My mother is still driving me Crazy!!
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Fri, 08-10-2007 - 4:14am

hi there,
in response to being asked if my guy is lazy and that's my he still lives at home....

No he is a highly motivated guy,places soccer, football and baseball.. all around active guy.. he always cooks me dinner at my house , loads the dishwasher and empties it. and helps keep the house tidy.. and even dresses the bed!!.. i think that he is really close to his family , and not that his mother does every thing for him, she doesnt at all.. im finding it really hard as i used to be very close to my mom.. why cant she understand out of all the bad ones ive met over the years, this guy is the closest ive ever been to "mr. right."..

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Registered: 06-20-2003
Fri, 08-10-2007 - 10:56am
Yoyo, I will need more info in order to help you. How old is your bf and does he have a fulltime job? If he is young and still living at home ,no problem.If he 35 watch out.From your question it seems he is obsessed with sports.This is usually an indication of arrested development.If he has no real job but spends all his time cooking and cleaning this could be a mjor issue.Like I said I need more data to solve this problem.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 08-10-2007 - 11:36am

Elayno,


You can't change your mom or make her accept the relationship with your boyfriend.