Is my wife hopelessly insensitive?

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Registered: 10-08-2003
Is my wife hopelessly insensitive?
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Tue, 03-30-2004 - 4:09pm
My wife's recreational hobby is volleyball. She now plays twice per week and meets with her team for social outings once or twice per month. She goes to volleyball with an unmarried man 10 years younger than her. I am not only not invited, I am excluded from all gatherings. When I asked to substitute on one of her teams she said, "We've had teams for years, so you'll have to be on the bottom of the list." When I said I'd like to join her new team, she said,"Get your own team.". I then stated that I knew her "boyfriend" would always be on all of those teams, she just said that they always play together, that nothing ever happens and that it is too bad. I then stated that she has made a point of never having her "best friend" ever observe us in a social situation where we were husband and wife she answered-and this is really incredible-"Oh, I see this is some male marking issue. You want to piss on me to show that you own me!"

My question is: Is my wife perhaps the biggest A-hole to walk the face of the earth?

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Registered: 10-08-2003
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 3:29pm
Yes, there's a husband and wife pair. Sometimes they have social events where one player and his girlfriend (who doesn't play) host the parties. I'm never invited even though they play party games that my wife knows I enjoy. There are a couple of other single people on the teams and I don't know if their "significant others" show up. Actually, I'm so out of the loop that I don't even know the make-up of the entire team(s).

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