naked photos

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2007
naked photos
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Mon, 07-23-2007 - 6:49am
I am at a point in my relationship where I now have a drawer at my boyfriends to keep my stuff. The problem is he told me the wrong drawer. When I went to get something, much to my surprise I found very explicit naked photo of old girlfrineds along with many porn magazines. He said he forgot he had them. I am having a very hard time even looking at him right now. Am I over reacting?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2007
In reply to: wieredout
Thu, 08-02-2007 - 7:22am
Okay, last question on this issue. I am thinking about giving my 'own' pictures to him. I have hired a professional photographer, this way if he needs to have any pictures they will be of me. I decided he can not be the only one in this relationship willing to make changes. I just don't wan to open up a can of worms that has been closed? What do you think?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: wieredout
Thu, 08-02-2007 - 6:11pm
That's an interesting idea. Bumping to the top to hear what others have to say.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2005
In reply to: wieredout
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 9:20pm
Maybe irrational but my concern would be...will he be concerned or "weiredout" about who took the picture? Professional photographer or not, I can see a man being upset about his SO getting her picture taken naked, even if it is for him. KWIM?

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