As name suggests...2confused

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Registered: 08-30-2007
As name suggests...2confused
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Thu, 10-04-2007 - 7:57pm

Funny thing is I've managed a few boards here....but this is first time I've actually posted without having been involved in ivillage.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 10-04-2007 - 9:07pm

Welcome to the board twoconfused,


Sounds like she's obsessed and/or she thinks she's getting mixed messages from your husband.

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Registered: 08-30-2007
Thu, 10-04-2007 - 9:19pm

Well considering her husband gave me print outs of her phone records..(her cell phone anyways) and there were...7 phone calls in 2 hours 1 minute

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 10-04-2007 - 10:31pm

::I'm just having a hard time thinking it's true...based on what "she" keeps calling/emailing me.


What does he say about these things?





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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 10-05-2007 - 7:46am

I think it's important for you to understand that this woman doesn't know you. She has no idea what your character is, and for her to say these things about you does not make them true. She's an angry woman who is bitter that you "officially own" the man she is crazy over. She's behaving like a very typical woman who is burned by an affair. Stupid and uncontrollable like an animal.

You should definitely get a restraining order and until then, ignore any contact from her, as hard as it may seem. You're the better person; she's the adulterous immature girl who can't handle herself or treat people in her life with respect.

"My husband is partly to blame for this..."
He's entirely to blame for it and he should take full responsibility.

The simple truth is, can you trust your husband again? Not any time soon. He's just had a serial affair and lied to you. Right now he is not a trustworthy person and it's going to take a long time of him BEING worthy of your trust in order to earn it back. If at all possible you should both be seeing a marriage counselor; without the right guidance you may fall apart. It would be helpful for you both to know what to expect from one another and the relationship after a traumatic time.