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Need advice about my ex
| Thu, 07-22-2004 - 3:43pm |
I am a 23 year old who currently still lives with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up 3 weeks ago, but still see each other every day. I am moving out in a week due to this stressful situation. I am just trying to figure out if we will ever get back together. I want him back desperately and he is not necessarily against the idea but I don't think he wants to right now. Anyway, we are still sexually intimate and he is always wanting to know who I have been hanging out with and if I have been intimate with anyone else. I haven't due to my love for him, and he claims he hasn't either. Him and I have a special bond I just can't shake. He's my lover, my boyfriend, and one of my best friends.I feel a strong feeling that he wants to get back together, but how long do I have to wait or should I wait to get him back? If we don't get back together, whats the best way to get over him when I love and miss him so much??

What's the reason for moving out? Why not work it out together?
As far as getting over someone if there is no chance of getting back together.... it takes time to grieve. To grieve for what might have been, for what could have been, for what you hoped would have been. Journal writing can help the process.
My best to you.
Carrie