Need Advice I Think my wife is cheating
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Need Advice I Think my wife is cheating
| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 2:24am |
Need help i think that my wife is cheating, ahve been married over 6 years. Got seperated in Sep 3, 2003 now i live with my parents and she rents a house with are children...She says that i annoy her when i talk about us working things out....Should i give her time or just leave her.....But I can't because I still Love Her????Need Help PLease

Are you two seperated?Has any action been taken for a divorce by either one of you?What makes you think shes cheating on you? Has she said specifically that she had no interest in working things out with you?
If she feels like things are over and has given up, as hard as it might be, you need to accept her answer.What makes it even harder is that you still have strong feelings for her. Try to
Carrie
For what it's worth here are signs of cheating according to Dear Abby. Keep in mind that it is somewhat geared to women and sexist:
1. A sudden change in manner of dress and grooming.
2. Secretiveness.
3. Unexplained absences.
4. Unfamiliar charges on credit card or phone bills.
5. Hang-ups on your home phone.
6. More business trips than usual.
7. Stops confiding in you or asking your advice.
8. Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you.
9. Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either knew about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)
10. Refuses to let you take him to the airport when he's leaving town.
11. Carries condoms even though you are on the pill.
12. Deletes incoming phone numbers from caller ID.
13. Leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Speedstick.
14. Becomes accusatory, asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
15. Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"
16. Buys himself new underwear.
17. Insists that the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
18. Stops wearing his wedding ring.
19. Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
20. Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
21. Has explained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
22. Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.
23. Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
24. Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
25. Has a sudden preoccupation with his appearance.
26. Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
27. Works long hours on weekends but is never at his desk to answer the phone. Then calls back later with a reason, such as, "I was working in the conference room where there is more space."
28. Has lots of "emergency errands." Then comes home empty-handed, saying, "They didn't have what I needed."
29. And the telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask the question in the first place. Listen to your gut!