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need advice please
| Sat, 04-24-2004 - 5:14pm |
I am not in a committed relationship, but rather I am in a casual sex relationship or a "friends with benefits" relationship. My partner has made it clear to me that he is not interested in a long-term relationship with me and just wants to be friends that have sex. I, on the other hand, like him and want this to turn into a romantic relationship. Is it likely that he could fall in love with me? Has anyone heard of casual sex relationships turning into committed relationships down the line?

So you really have to ask yourself if you are willing to take that risk.
Why don't you believe him when he tells you what he wants and doesn't want?
Believe him, he's got the kind of relationship he wants and it's working for him. Loving him more, giving him more sex, will NOT make him fall in love with you and make him want what you want. So many women make this mistake, they think they can change the guy or pursuade the guy, if they just love him enough, give him enough, have enough sex with him, etc.
Save yourself some heartache and let this relationship go. Sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie