Need Advice Please

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Need Advice Please
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 9:32am

I met a guy on a cruise who is part of a band.

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Registered: 08-21-2005
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 12:21pm

When was the last time you spoke? Has it been very long?

Its hard to say what's going on. He may have lost your # which is why he hasn't called, or he may not be interested. It sounds like your last encounter may have ended awkwardly so he may have the impression you're not interested in him because you took off on the first train.

If I were you, I'd probably contact him one more time and then leave the ball in his court.

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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 2:22pm
Hi lovemykidlets.
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 4:43pm

Welcome to the board maryanncu,


::What does "he thinks about you all the time mean?"


That usually means there is an interest/attraction.

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Registered: 03-16-2004
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 5:44pm
Hi and thanks for your advice.
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:16pm

It sounds as though the two of you shared some lovely moments. But the fact that you haven't heard from him in all this time, seems to suggest that it is not more than that. If he wanted to keep in touch, he would have. It's easy to build fantasies and to build something up in your mind. I'm sure he found you attractive and interesting, but he is in the Phillipines and you are here, and many people are not available for long distance relationships.


It's important to see something for what it is, appreciate it, but not develop expectations that may be unreal and will get you hurt.


All good wishes,

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Registered: 03-16-2004
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 9:29pm

Thanks everyone for your sound advice.