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|Fri, 08-24-2012 - 2:03pm|
Ok here it goes: I went thru a divorce a year ago. I dated a rebound that when it was over I was left broken hearted. It forced me to deal with my pain. I started to date again last April. No relationships just dates. Then in June I started seeing a guy for a few weeks. I broke it off when I found out he was hooking up with another girl. I went on a couple dates with another guy and just didn’t feel the connection. I decided I was done dating and needed to focus on me. I was finally at a point where I was enjoying the single life. Then I met this great guy. We connected. We can talk on the phone for 8 hours at a time. He lives an hour and a half away. Oct. 1st I will be moving to a town only 40 mins away from him.
I have never felt this way about anyone except my ex husband. We divorced because his brother committed suicide and he became angry at the world and took it out on me. He refused to get help.
What I need advice on is how do two people who have an amazing connection but need to work on themselves make it work? We talk about how walking away and working on ourselves is best but we also know that our connection is special and know losing each other would be a big mistake.
He has 3 kids I have none. We don’t know how to balance everything out. He needs to put his kids and himself first. He’s in a custody battle with his ex-wife. I just sold my house and I am starting my own company. We are a great support for each other and I know we have had a huge impact on each other’s lives for the better. I am falling in love with him and vis versa.