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| Fri, 08-20-2004 - 12:37pm |
hi this is a strange question but i really need answers.
i dont like to give or recieve some sexual favours with my man of 3 yrs, i just like a kiss,a play with myself and then full sexual intercourse, i dont like and will never do hand jobs or oral. i have been told by many people on ivillage that just because my man isnt bothered about me not liking these sexual favours that in time he will be bothered and will want me to do more with him sexualy,is this true?
xxx
i dont like to give or recieve some sexual favours with my man of 3 yrs, i just like a kiss,a play with myself and then full sexual intercourse, i dont like and will never do hand jobs or oral. i have been told by many people on ivillage that just because my man isnt bothered about me not liking these sexual favours that in time he will be bothered and will want me to do more with him sexualy,is this true?
xxx
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| Fri, 08-20-2004 - 3:55pm |
No one can correctly claim that all men are universal in their sexual attitudes, preferences, appetite, level of desire, needs, or ability to accept and be satisfied with their partner's sexual preferences even if those preferences are more limited than some other women. Your man is an individual and if he assures you that you are meeting his needs, that he's fine with your sex life as it is, that he doesn't feel that he's being denied something he very much desires, then believe and trust him and do not worry about something that will probably never happen. There are some men who don't want to engage in particular sexual acts if those acts are a turn off to the woman they love. They are more interested in mutual pleasure, and they don't insist that a woman do something that is unpleasant for her for his pleasure only. Some men find that idea repulsive. There is nothing "wrong" with you for not liking oral sex. You are not somehow inadequate because of your preferences. They are what they are. I could say the same about anal sex. Just be glad that your man is sexually compatible with you and stop worrying about the opinions of strangers - they don't know you or your man.
