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| Sun, 06-17-2007 - 2:21am |
Is it okay in a serious committed monagamous relationship to go through your signifigant other cell phone??
If you think so why?
If not why??
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If you're meaning without their knowledge, no it is not.
To not show trust is to also not get trust.
I have nothing to hide ever, but the thought of my privacy being invaded rubs me the wrong way. If I had a thought or concern about who my wife was calling, I'd ask to see her phone/records or whatever before just doing it.
It's OK to have concerns and they should be talked about, no need for subterfuge or deceit.
i dont know of any good privacy issues with respect to a phone while in a relationship. it is only an issue of privacy if there is something to hide. is he planning a surprise birthday party that he doesn't want you to know about? if you look in the phone to find out, that would be an invasion of privacy.
I think reading someone else's text messages is tantamount to reading their mail without permission.
I have nothing to hide, but my mail is private. I may choose to share it with my SO or I may choose not to. Same goes for him and his mail (e-mail or regular mail).
To the OP, my SO and I have no problem with looking at each others' phones, but generally speaking, I would NEVER look without his permission. And I would never read his texts or look to see who he's called. It's none of my business and it doesn't worry me in the least.
Now if I *thought* that he was hiding something, then that's another issue entirely. I wouldn't want to be with someone I couldn't trust, but I'd probably, in all honesty, look at the phone to get 'proof'.
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