Need help

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Registered: 06-25-2007
Need help
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Mon, 06-25-2007 - 12:29pm
6 months ago I met this guy from an online friendship and dating website. He was 20 years older than me and I decided to meet him solely as a friend. On the fourth time we met, he requested for a kiss and I agreed. When he asked for another kiss, I reminded him that we could only be friends and rejected him. He was pissed off and soon we did not meet


Edited 6/26/2007 6:00 pm ET by outofthespace
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 1:08pm

Welcome to the board outofthespace,


You want to see him, why?

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 3:13pm
I think you are both playing games. Decide if you want to be friends or more and be honest with him. Communicate. Why would he invite you on a trip if you told him you want to be friends? Three weeks is a long time to spend with someone you don't know very well.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 4:03pm

I am not sure why you expected him to invite you on a three week trip. You have only met each other approx. 8 times. You don't even know each other. Plus you don't even know what you want out of the relationship.


I don't think you should pursue anything other than an online friendship.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 4:23pm

My guess is that he's married and that you are the hot young thing he met online and wanted to have an affair with.

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