If he loved you enough,he wont date other women.Period.
Him making a promise to marry you if you divorce your H doesnt match with him dating another woman. Where is the commitment?
I have seen people having lifelong affairs and they last on the single word called commitment.Yes,single men/women stay committed to the M one.And it comes from within.He wont notice any woman around him if he really loved you ,forget about dating !
Thank your stars that he is dating and you didnt leave your H for him.He is not worth it.
You are married, it doesn't matter who he is boinking, he is free to do that with whomever he wants, you are not in a exclusive relationship (being married to someone else
If he loved you enough,he wont date other women.Period.
Him making a promise to marry you if you divorce your H doesnt match with him dating another woman. Where is the commitment?
I have seen people having lifelong affairs and they last on the single word called commitment.Yes,single men/women stay committed to the M one.And it comes from within.He wont notice any woman around him if he really loved you ,forget about dating !
Thank your stars that he is dating and you didnt leave your H for him.He is not worth it.
You are married, it doesn't matter who he is boinking, he is free to do that with whomever he wants, you are not in a exclusive relationship (being married to someone else
Welcome to the board kicia2008,
Since you've been in the affair for 4 yrs and your daughter is 2 - do you know which man is her father?
Other iVillage boards that might help:
Ending an Affair Support
My Affair Support
You might want to see a counselor to help you sort through this.