Need Help Leaving Affair Partner

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2007
Need Help Leaving Affair Partner
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 8:37pm
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Registered: 06-19-2008
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 1:42am

If he loved you enough,he wont date other women.Period.

Him making a promise to marry you if you divorce your H doesnt match with him dating another woman. Where is the commitment?

I have seen people having lifelong affairs and they last on the single word called commitment.Yes,single men/women stay committed to the M one.And it comes from within.He wont notice any woman around him if he really loved you ,forget about dating !

Thank your stars that he is dating and you didnt leave your H for him.He is not worth it.

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Registered: 04-02-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 9:28am

You are married, it doesn't matter who he is boinking, he is free to do that with whomever he wants, you are not in a exclusive relationship (being married to someone else

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 12:06pm

Welcome to the board kicia2008,


Since you've been in the affair for 4 yrs and your daughter is 2 - do you know which man is her father?


Other iVillage boards that might help:


Ending an Affair Support


My Affair Support


You might want to see a counselor to help you sort through this.





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