Need help urgently

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Registered: 07-19-2004
Need help urgently
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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 10:38am
Av bin wid my boyfriend for 3weeks now :-) But im sooo confused. He used to wanna see me everyday, he'd fone or txt me ya goina cum an see me, but now we ardly see each other. We first spent 5 days not seein each other, wen id fone he'd either miss my calls or he'd say he was too tired (we dnt do nethin neways wen we do see each other so dat is a stupid excuse) i went to see him neways afta nto seein him for 5 days, i felt sooo weird seein him cos id ardly spoke to him, but afta a few mins we were ok an tlkin an dat. We ended up also sleepin together (it was my first time an all). But i now aint seen or spoke to him for 3 days :-( I dnt understand wats goin on, i wanted to see him today to sort it out but his fones goin strate to voicemail. I don't undastand him, he sed to me a few days ago dat he wudnt be cumpin me netime soon an all dis. An dat he really really likes me. Weneva i do try an tlk to him in a serious conversation he jus kisses me an tries to change da subject. PLZ SUMONE TELL ME IS HE TRYIN TO TELL ME SUTTIN HERE? Im gettin worried now, cos da last lad i was wid, a few weeks b4 he sed he dnt wanna be wid me made up similar excuses like he is now (e.g. cnt be arsed cumin out, or am too tired am jus stayin in) an am scared incase my new boyfriend's goina do da same! If i do ask him abar it, how shud i start the conversation???? And what shud i do wen he tries an changes da subject?? Is there a way of tellin also if he is lying to me???
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Registered: 05-20-2003
Sat, 07-24-2004 - 11:52am
Honestly your post is very hard to read.