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| Sun, 05-02-2004 - 4:53pm |
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now. He has this good friend that is female and he likes to hang out with her, it seems to me like it's a lot, but I guess it's only couple times a week. He tells me they are just friends, and she has even called me to tell me the same thing and I think I believe them. But what my problem is that I an extremely jealous if he says something about her or if he goes to see her. I guess they talk on the phone and text message a lot too. I don't think anything is going on between them but I can't understand why I am so jealous if I'm the one he kisses and etc. I have gotten really jealous and very mad at him twice now for seeing her and not me, and he tells me that if I get jealous again that will be the end of him and I. He has only know this girl not even a year, but he's known me 4 years. I want to stop being jealous because I don't think I really have anything to be jealous about except I don't like him hanging out with other females, so I don't like them hanging out. What do I do? How can I overcome this jealous attitude of mine? I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me. Please help me!!!!!
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| Sun, 05-02-2004 - 5:14pm |
I can’t believe someone finally posted something I might know something about. See I have always had male friends; also I have basically worked around all men for 8 years. I use to sell automotive paint and now I work for a company I use to sell to. So I do get what you are going through. Just I’m on the other side of the story. Anyway like I said almost every friend I’ve had has been a man, and sometimes it does lead to something that’s how I ended up with my husband, but just so you know 99% didn’t even come close to that, what is good about having friends the opposite sex is the advise that comes with it. I have friends that tell me when I’m being bitchy or they tell me what different things my husband does or says really mean, I really haven’t got any as close as you are talking about right now, but I have and as long as she is a descent person, have you ever talked to her? Does she act funny around you? Those are bad signs of course. But I wouldn’t be surprised if they mostly talk about you or her boyfriend that is how it is and has been for me. So unless you see more I wouldn’t go accusing him, you know the saying if I’m getting the blame anyway what the hell.
