Need Some Advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2003
Need Some Advice
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Mon, 06-02-2003 - 1:11pm
just had a quick question to ask..i am always the type of person to go out and get what i want in life thats including men..someone told me to let the man come to me and ask me out which i find that to be somewhat true but if we always wanted on the man to make a move we would be waiting a long time..so when a women approaches a man and asks him out does that make her less of a women or does that make us look "easy".. should we sit back and wait for the male to ask out or go and get what we want?? thanks for your help.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-02-2003 - 2:14pm
The type of men that I am attracted to - masculine, healthy sense of confidence, outgoing, intellgent, traditional values - are also the type who ask women out and who might be flattered by being asked but likely will not get serious with that person. I go for what I want when it comes to my career and other aspects of my life - the way that I go for what I want with men is by letting them pursue me and being open, approachable, warm and friendly - but not too agressive especially in the beginning. I have never been at a loss for healthy positive male attention - I am reasonably attractive, slim and educated - far from a model so that is not the reason. Don't "sit back and wait" - be out there and warm, friendly and approachable - not overly enthusiastic just "normal."