Need some advice

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Registered: 09-02-2008
Need some advice
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Tue, 09-02-2008 - 4:05pm

I need some advice here on what to do. Me and my fiancee of five years have had a bad patch here the last couple months. It was about money, what a surprise. Anyways she moved out about a month ago but would come over time to time. The last time I seen her was exactly two weeks ago today. She left on good terms, we hugged and kissed each other and told each other we loved one another. My son was down here for part of the summer and it was his last week down here so she said she would take him to the movies the next day. She emailed me the next day and apologized for not picking my son up and taking him to the movies. I told her no big deal the movie didnt come out until Friday. We told each other I love you and that was it.


Now she wont reply to any of my emails and she changed her cell phone number. So I havent seen her in two weeks and havent talked to her in a week. In the past week I have had alot of time to do some thinking. And looking back at the summer I handled the whole situation wrong about the money. I was probaly even a jerk at times. So now I am at the point where I would do anything to try to get this relationship back on track. I'm up for counseling or whatever it takes. And I'm worried that the longer I wait to do something I risk the chance of her getting over me. I love this girl to death and I need some advice about what I can do.


Thanks


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 5:36pm

Sounds like she has made a strong choice to disconnect. The first thing you have to do is to find out how to reach her and then just tell her what you told us in the email. Be simple, honest, direct and ask for her forgiveness. If she is for you, she will give you another chance. If not, if she has already decided to take another course in life, you will find out directly yourself.


All good wishes,

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