Need some advice..

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Registered: 04-07-2008
Need some advice..
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Mon, 04-07-2008 - 7:29pm

My parents set me up with this guy who seemed decent. Our first chat on aim was quick because I had to go to the hospital to see my grandma that day. So he added me on facebook and somehow molded his profile to impress me. I didn’t message him for a while because my grandma was sick and messaged him on his wall but he ignored that and deleted certain things on his profile which he had used to get my attention. I felt really bad and then immediately messaged him on one of his other SN’s on aim but he ignored me and left. I told one of my friends about it and she told me to not message him again and wait for him to say something or it’s his loss. So a few days later, he messages me and we finally begin chatting and seem to get along. We chatted the entire week or so whenever we caught each other online. I then told him that I was going to FL for vacation for a while. I didn’t have internet access for about a week and couldn’t message him. I didn’t think about calling because I hardly knew him yet; we hadn’t even met yet. When I got back I messaged him and he ignored it and left. I then e-mailed him and told him about my trip and asked how he was but he didn’t respond back. He even blocked me on aim. It seemed he wasn’t interested anymore and the blocking upset me so I took him off my facebook list and then I noticed that he blocked me from search. I still feel a bit upset. Should I just forget about this whole thing and move on? Who’s at fault?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 9:16pm

Welcome to the board tina0808,


The guy is a flake.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 11:28pm

'Should I just forget about this whole thing and move on?'


This guy sounds really immature. Did he even ask you about your grandmother?


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Registered: 05-15-2006
Tue, 04-08-2008 - 8:24am

This guy is weird, I would chalk it up to his loss. He's wishy-washy in the worst way and you've only caught a glimpse of what this guys about. I would proceed with extreme caution if you continue to pursue him.

Best wishes,

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Registered: 04-07-2008
Wed, 04-09-2008 - 5:47pm

Thanks for the advice everyone.. :) I think you're right. If someone can be so immature and egoistic

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Registered: 04-07-2008
Wed, 04-09-2008 - 5:55pm
Yes, he actually