This is true. I can understand that. I was just thinking if you had met the daughter than more than likely she would have told her mother. Plus if you stay together, get married, etc you will have to met her sometime.
Well, clearly although they are divorced, he is still emotionally not free of the relationship - feeling guilt about being with someone new. He needs to work through his feelings of guilt about moving on and perhaps feeling as though he's deserted her. These feelings are not unusual in a divorce, but sooner or later they have to be worked out. If not, they can interfere with going forward. Tell him he needs some counselling sessions to clear this matter up. If he could have done it alone he would have by now.
A year is enough time to know where the relationship is going. In your case, he's keeping it comparpentalized from the rest of his life. He's is unready or unwilling to get serious with you. At least right now. It may change. It may not. Even if you met his child and he told his ex about you, you may still be feeling like the mistress. If he caters to his ex like they are still together, if she holds seeing their child out as a reward only for catering to all her whims, if she likes to throw her weight around to make him cater to her and slight you only to show she can do it. She will be
Welcome to the board carebeargal (cute, part of that a friend calls me),
:: But he does feel guilt because he knows that she is holding on to the thought of them possibly getting back together.
Welcome to the board carebeargal,
Have you met his daughter? If not, will you soon?
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Well, clearly although they are divorced, he is still emotionally not free of the relationship - feeling guilt about being with someone new. He needs to work through his feelings of guilt about moving on and perhaps feeling as though he's deserted her. These feelings are not unusual in a divorce, but sooner or later they have to be worked out. If not, they can interfere with going forward. Tell him he needs some counselling sessions to clear this matter up. If he could have done it alone he would have by now.
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