need some help quickly

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2007
need some help quickly
2
Thu, 08-02-2007 - 8:25pm
ok here is the deal . one of my friends who introduced me to my fiance we met first . he is in arealtionship and has been dating her for 4 years. we first met becuase of a pic on my myspace page because of a comment that a friend made to me .he said that he had noticed me before and was afraid to talk to me . well we started talking and things got a little out of and. he introduced me to my now fiance and at the beginning of our relationship we were so much in love . i thought about him all the time . its been 11 mths i have been engaged since feb of this year. the thing is this friend still comes to me for "favors" i gladly give them to hoim because i enjoy it . The thing is that I have kinda fallen for him. i know this is wrong and it would kill my fiance but i cant help it . what should i do .
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 4:04pm

Welcome to the board,


Unfortunately, I don't think you are ready for a long-term committed relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-19-2002
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 4:28pm
You're not ready for a committed relationship. I would recommend examining the reasons why you are engaged to be married.