Need some serious advice....just dont know where to go with this....

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2008
Need some serious advice....just dont know where to go with this....
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Tue, 09-13-2011 - 10:30pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004

You need an attorney.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009

I'm sorry but I agree with geo. You are correct that you are being taken advantage of. If you continue to try with her, you will just be spinning your wheels. The smartest thing you can do is talk to an attorney so that you get as much custody of your kids as you can. I'm sorry you're going through this. Life is so hard when other people put us in impossible situations. In these cases, all you can do is change course and move forward in another direction.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009

She won't "stop" because she doesn't have to......she's getting away with it because you're allowing it.

Your post is confusing..........do I see that she's getting medicaid health insurance?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

This is kind of confusing--when you say she is getting child support, does that mean she is getting it from you or from the state?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2008
Not really sure if she is recieving medicaid..I dont think so but i have her and the kids on my insurance through work...I really dont know if shes getting any aid or not..
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2008
Child support through the state...It's payroll deducted every week..If i refuse to pay the bills it will only hurt me and the kids ..we live here too...all i know is that i shouldnt have to pay child support to her when they live with me and i support them as it is..why should i give her money....She gave her place of employment her moms address as well as child support still having it too..the state i guess still thinks her and the kids live at her moms....
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2008
thank you...
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

Ok, so apparently there are no joint bank accts. and she is living under the philosophy that what she makes is hers and what you make is joint!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2008
I know but by child support ruling, she still has "residential custody" of the boys and if i call it off she'll take them back to her moms where, i assume, she can..thats where i get confused caused i have a copy of the lease agreement with her name on it here at the apartment....I dont want to lose my kids......last time we were separated i didnt see them much..ive worked 2 jobs for 3 years now...
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
That's why you need the attorney. They are on to all kinds of tricks like this.

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