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| Tue, 05-18-2004 - 2:09am |
When she broke up with me she told me she never wanted to speak to me again.
Generally, I would have maintained NC with her, but I felt that I was in the wrong. So I mailed her the book He's Scared, She's Scared because I believe that she has committmentphobic tendencies anyways.
I thought she would be upset, but instead she sent me an email thanking me for being so thoughtful and letting me know that she would read the book to see if it would help her. Additionally she told me that she forgave me for lying to her and that she just wanted to forgive and forget it. Sometime I just feel that I screwed up something very good.
I called her last Friday expecting to get her voicemail, but she answered and we had a very nice conversation for around 20 minutes. At the end she thanked me for calling her. She was very sweet on the phone and was generally interested in how things were going for me. It was a nice call.
So anyways, I'm trying to figure out what to do next. Should I maintain NC and give her the opportunity to call me if she wants. I'm not one to sit around and mope, so I don't expect any drastic change in her attitude towards me. However, in this case I felt I was in the wrong, I apologized and she forgave me. If anything I would like to maintain a friendship with her but I don't want to be pushy at all.
She suggested we get together for dinner or lunch. It was her suggestion so I figure I should just wait to see if she contacts me.
Edited 5/18/2004 2:16 am ET ET by ejirardo
| Tue, 05-18-2004 - 8:16am |
