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|Mon, 10-29-2012 - 11:16pm|
I haven't been on here in forever.. I am married, we have been together 13 years now. about a year and a half ago I cheated on my husband, I was in a really bad spot and made a mistake. I regret what happened, and my husband and I stayed together and vowed to work thru it. The last year and a half has had its ups and downs but we have stayed together and thought we were on the mend. About a week and a half ago he told me we need to seperate that he needs space, that he just buried his feelings for what happened instead of dealing with them. it breaks me heart that hes not here. He swears this is for the best and its to make us stronger and closer, he doesn't want a divorce, he wants us forever, just needs space. so sadly our 12 year old daughter knows about my mistake due to a family member thinking she needed to know, and she has in a sense turned against me, and honestly is playing her dad against me. So she went with my husband, I am lost without them, its just my son and I at home left to manage. I honestly believe my daughter was not hurt by my cheating because we didn't fight around them or anything and we up until now have stayed together, I think she is 12 and just playing her dad for the attention? thoughts????
my husband and daughter are staying else where and looking for a place of there own, I have no clue how much time is needed for him, and I just want to help. I am so stressed over it, also due to me being in nursing school and not working, as that was what we decided has a couple for me to go to school and not work now, and yet know I'm stuck trying to pay bills and everything.
I am lost and don't know what to do about anytihng. I am looking into counseling for my daughter as I think it would be beneficial, espceially with some of the notes I find that talk about her hurting herself. I as well am looking into counseling for me, as I know I have personal self esteem issues.