need unbiased opinions

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Registered: 10-30-2003
need unbiased opinions
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Tue, 12-30-2003 - 12:36pm
Is it normal for ex spouses to get together and do things with their kids (ie-movies) without their new spouses?

My BF does things like this and says its for the kids but I cannot get past my jealousy and thinking its not healthy for the kids.

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Sat, 01-03-2004 - 2:30am
I'm amazed at how many people won't set a boundary with their ex for fear of something, anything they deem unpleasant.

Women can read women and I think you have his ex pegged. Sorry you have to go through this and will continue to have to go through this until he's willing to set a boundary with her, let go of his guilt at his kid(s) not being in a two parent home, etc.

My best to you.


Carrie

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