Need your advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2004
Need your advice
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Fri, 06-18-2004 - 1:01pm
Hi all!

I would really appreciate your advice on this...

I recently found out that my bf lied about seeing this one girl..He wasn't the one to bring her over and supposedly didn't talk to her much anyway. But fact remains, that he said everything was over the phone, and failed to mention the fact that he actually saw her in person, after he promised he wouldnt.

He says he's not interested in her or anyone else...They are just friends. Problem is that he fooled around with all of his "friends". I know I don't fool around with my friends, and if I do they become more than that. So because I'm so freaked out on the matter, he orchestrates these lies to keep me from blowing up at him...Please keep in mind these girls are waayyyy to easy. They do "things"with whomever, whenever...I just don't want him going there when we had a fight or smth..

Do you guys think that I'm really "making" him lie? Or is there no excuse for lying?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 1:14pm
'Problem is that he fooled around with all of his "friends'

Since you have been dating?

No one has the power to make anyone lie.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2004
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 1:48pm
No, he hasn't been fooling around with them since he started dating me. But the fact that they used to do stuff just cuz they had nothing better, noone better to do...is disgusting to me and I can't get over it.. I overreact if I see them anywhere close. So he feels like he has to cover up any run ins with them.