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| Thu, 04-29-2004 - 10:09am |
I have been married for over 2 yrs now. I was a virgin when I got marreid, sex was great initially between us but then we got busy with jobs, other stuff and though our relationship was strong we were very good freinds but the frequency of sex started decreasing. I worked long hours and nights and was always busy so did not approach this subject at all with my husband, thought it was just aphase and things would get better. But I always got the feeling that at times when I treid to initiate it he was not interested!!!Anyway couple of months back I found out that he was still in contact with this women he had met online before we were dating. As far as I could find out he does not have a intimate relationship with her but exchanges phone calls and emails. I did not confront him on this women but discussed our relationship issues, asked if was having an affair was pretty frank and open, he deneid everything and said he was committed to the marraige and would do anything to improve our relationship..since then our relationship has improved tremendously. But he still calls and gets and sends emails to this women and some of them have sexual content in them. This women lives in a differnet city so there is no way he has a physical relationship with her. My dilemma is should I confront him and ask him about this women he has never even mentioned to me or just wait and watch what happens. I am scared that finally things are better in the bedroom for us and confronting him could create problems. He is otherwise a very nice guy, takes real good care of me....I am confused sometimes I feel that maybe I am not horny enough for him..I am nice looking attractive women but I am a little shy when it comes to talking about sex
