Needz sum advice!

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Registered: 07-23-2004
Needz sum advice!
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Sat, 10-16-2004 - 7:41pm
I've been with my boo for almst 3 years now and lately we've been arguing a lot, when we wake up before going to bed, I really hate that, most of the arguments are because one of us complaints about the other. On my side I really wish he would help me doing some basic stuff, like cooking when I can't, cleaning the house, just helping me out in general.

Another thing is that he says all I do is judge him and that I shouldn't be with him if I'm not happy with the way he is. I don't think that's true, I tried to communicate with him but I dunno because almost everytime we end up arguing.

I really love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him but sometimes I'm just tierd of arguing over and over that I feel like by leaving it will all be better.

Please give me some usefull advice I would really appreciate it

Thanxs

sweetzyum

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Registered: 09-26-2004
Sun, 10-17-2004 - 1:37am
He said the magic words..."you should'nt be with him." He sounds like a man that will never change and you will be stressed out and angry forever. He's not interested in how you feel or if you need help. Either get used to this treatment for life or leave the cave man and find a man more sensitive to you. Most women settle for bad treatment because they love a jerk. Would'nt it make sense to give yourself a chance to love a good guy? Half the population of the planet is the opposite sex--the odds are good that you can find another man. If you leave he'd be hurt for a week and have another girl willing to settle for less move right in.