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new and dont know what to do
| Wed, 08-29-2007 - 1:22pm |
not sure where to start but new to dating after divorce(10yrs married its been 3years since the divorce) and thought i met the man of my dreams...yesterday i read an email that i shouldnt have on his computer and it was to an ex in which he said that his summer was good but would be better if it was with her...i was heart broken and approached him in which he said he was being nice and he was trying to make her feel good but that it couldnt be more untrue and that this summer has been the best summer of his life with me. it has been only about 2 months but since we were both off for the summer we have basically been together 24/7. is this a terrible sign and should i just keep looking for someone more honest? please give me advice..

Maybe he is stringing them both along.
Poster: Being nice to an ex doesn't include lying to them about your feelings. This just justifies that he is a liar and you can't trust him. I am sorry. Is he very remorseful?
Well, it's a warning note for sure. The larger question is why is he writing to his ex at all? He shouldn't be if he's with you 24/7. Is he truly over the relationship? Old ties and also guilt can hang in for awhile.
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