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Registered: 10-24-2006
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 6:56pm

Hello!


I post on a couple other boards here, and found this board while searching for something, looking for info on how to keep from going bonkers over the guy I'm seeings lack of communication. I know "failure to communicate" isn't anything new in regards to relationships, but I am at a real loss here. This guy is great, open with his feelings, with affection, wants to make long term plans, when we talk I feel every word he says, I feel loved and so important to him. The whole package. Then he'll do this disappearing act where days or even weeks will pass with no communication. No email, no text, no phone calls nothing. This kills me. When we do get back in contact and I ask why he explains it to me like this "I just get so down when I think about how helpless I feel about the distance between us" (he's a cop and his

 

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: mommy_2_caleb29
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 9:43pm

Welcome to the board mommy_2_caleb29,


I'm not sure, but he could have depression issues or he could be hiding something from you if he's disappearing the way he is.


Reading material to consider: Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis


If the good out weighs the bad, then you will stay.